Terms of Un-Endearment

Its more than a month that the Ruffayah-Ylmas has been the core of showbiz intrigues and selling like hot cakes after the Kris-James-Hope brouhaha.

As a matter of fact, Kris Aquino thanked Ruffa for making her life in serenity because people savor more Ruffa’s marriage on the rock than Kris-James marital problem.

As the news escalate from Ruffa’s confession to divorce Ylmas to her admission of unpublished marriage to Richard Daloia, there were many people meddling and make feast of every exclusive news… more scoops and explosive revelations unveiled publicly.

Now, its not only the Gutierrez family involved, but its Ruffa-Annabel-Ylmas-Dolly Ann. Branded as Brutus-Bruhilda war.

Recently, Ylmas declared all-out-war with Ruffa saying that he is ready to play games with Ruffa where in the end, both of them will be losers.

Ruffa answers Ylmas point-by-point and revealed the real agony she experienced during their 7 year old relation.

Dolly Ann feels vindicated about the truth of her articles about Ruffa’s previous marriage and Ylmas family business. She exposed Ruffa’s previous marriage to Richard Daloia in Nevada in 2001.

But then the saga doesn’t stop. One accusing each other. Garbage in the closets are out.. Ano ba kayang baho ang ilalabas???? Abangan natin ang No 1 soap operang ito…..

Here are some comments from readers:

i believe ruffa that yilmaz made all those threats. sino ba ang hindi magwawala upon discovering that ang wife mo pala ay asawa ng iba at ikaw ay kabit lang? this, after you have showered all sorts of luxuries on your wife, as in you gave her everything she wanted. whether yilmaz is intent on following through or not, remains to be seen. but i repeat, any guy in yilmaz's position regardless of nationality, religious affiliation, or country of origin would fly into such a rage. – Liwayway

ikinasal si ruffa kay richard daloia in 1999, she met ylmaz in 2000..she filed for a divorce against richard in 2002.. ruffa & ylmaz gor married in 2004.. ang bilis naman ng pangyayari.. she said that when she was young.. she did a lot of crazy things like getting married in las vegas and eventually having discreet relationship(s) while still legally married.. what about now? do u think karma has something to do with all the troubles she's goin through?? – Tiya Dely

From the very beginning sa salita ni Tita Anabelle obvious na sinasaktan nya talaga si Ruffa, panoorin nyo yung interview lahat kay Anabelle, syempre bilang isang ina maawa ka sa anak kapag sinasaktan ng lalaki. I believe with Annabelle and I believe with Ruffa na talagang pinagtatakpan nya lang ang asawa nya para di na lumala alang alang sa mga anak nya, kaso etong si Yilmaz talagang ayaw patalo kasi sa isip nya kayang kaya nyang gawin kahit anong gusto nya. Kaya tama lang ang ginawa ni Ruffa na hiniwalayan nya si Yilmaz. – Ivy Ivan


i know it's a shame to find sheer pleasure and amusement with all thats happening with the people in the show biz industry, particularly Greta and Ruffa. its not nice at all too to make a complete mockery out their condition and add insult to the injury but on second thought i find it rather completely entertaining how these 2 women really live their pagiging "show biz" literally. todo na eh.
im not a big fan of Ruffa nor Gretta nor am i interested in bashing at their crooked peronalities. i leave it to the other pepters! pero naloka ako sa interview ng lola Ruffa niyo. i know this issue about Ruffa and Ylmaz will linger on for quite a while and overly redundant na pero sa dami ng chance niyo to speak the truth mantakin niyong ngayon pa siya kuno nagkalakas ng loob to tell the truth, at least sa akala niya. eh susme di nga alam ng mudra niyang si Annabelle na kinasal siya. ang dami niyang pasabog bigla na negative kay Ylmaz. typical na pangontra pero sayang, damaged na ang credibility ng lola niyo. – west tri

umpisa pa lang ng pagsasama nila bago naganap ang pekeng kasalan sa Pinas ay sinasaktan na siya, bakit nakisama pa rin siya ng 4 taon kay yilmaz...dahil ba sa PERA??? at noon pa man ay nakakaalis siya ng istanbul bakit bumabalik pa rin siya doon dahil ba rin sa PERA? ngayon di na talaga siya babalik at naglakas loob ng siyang aminin na battered wife siya...bakit??? dahil nabuking na siya'y kasal kay richard d. at talagang mabububog na nga siya..takbo ruffa takbo....hayan na ang kasong bigamy sa iyo!!! – pinay cali

Filipino consider showbiz news as part of their daily lives.. Siguro, nakasanayan na natin ang sumagap ng tsismis at gawin itong almusal, pananghalian at hapunan… we are critics of other’s failures and weaknesses, pero ang hindi natin alam may mga similar instances din tayo gaya ng nangyayari sa iba.. Sabi nga sa bible. “He who have no sin, can cast the first stone”…

Ewan ko, basta bahala sila sa buhay nila, bahala din ako…..To Each his own....