Rapture

There is a place for us
that no one else can enter.
It is a place that holds no secrets,
only beauty, peace, understanding.

A place that we come to,
thinking we are one,
only to have our souls
fused together for a moment.

And in that moment, I know you;
every pore, every pulse,
every thought, every fear.
And I love you more.

I feel myself laid bare before you,
and I feel content . . .
joyous that you are with me,
loving me in my nakedness.

Sex is great!

Desire and intimacy are very much a part of Love, and sex need not be sordid or ugly. On the contrary, between two people very much in love with each other, sex can the most beautiful and natural thing in the universe.

There is so much that two people in love share, and the feeling is beyond compare. If you share of yourself with your love, you will in return, get the blessings of closeness.

When you love someone and want to be in their life, it is a simple but all encompassing feeling.

TOP OR BOTTOM

The most obvious place the issue of top and bottom surfaces is in the bedroom. Depending on how slutty you are, it could come up within hours or even minutes of meeting someone.

It's naturally frustrating when there is a lack of position compatibility. There are the classic notions of two bottoms knitting or two frustrated and horny tops aggressively trying to persuade each other to give in. In general, if there's one person who leans, he can be convinced to switch teams for a night or a lifetime. If both parties are stubborn, platonic sleepovers and unreturned phone calls ensue. In the bedroom, the toughest issue for both the top and the bottom is merely compatibility.

I have always thought of the bottom as the one with the most power in bed. After all, he controls access, and if you can't get in, nothing is going to happen. Tops seem easier to convince that sex is in the cards. A simple blowjob is often all it takes to get a top's ball rolling. That can work on a bottom, too, but I don't think it's nearly as effective. Then again, if you need to work that hard to convince someone who's already in your bed to have sex with you, your relationship probably has more problems than just deciding who's going to bottom for the evening.

Top and bottom shows up just as readily outside the bedroom as it does inside. It can take the form of control of the relationship in an emotional sense. Since there is often an economic divide between partners, a financial inequality can lead to top and bottom roles in the relationship. Ultimately what decides top and bottom are the interested parties themselves. Money, sex and emotions can help shape the course of a relationship, but the two people in the relationship tend to fall into the roles they are best suited for and most interested in.

My Forbidden Questions

It is better yo be open than to hide it from others or deny to yourself. If you suppress it, your heart will try to trick your head..


1. How old were you when you lost your virginity? With whom?
12, but tried sex at 7. “Iggy”

2. Worst thing done while drunk?
stripped off sa beach

3. Have you slept with any blogger contact?
nope

4. Have you ever cheated when you were in a relationship?
Yup, 3 times

5. How far how you gone to check if your partner is cheating you?
Check his CP almost everyday.

6. Mancrush, 1 local and 1 foreign celebrity?
Local: John Lloyd Cruz
Foreign: Josh Hartnett

7. Last time you pleasured yourself?
15 minutes ago

8. How big is your wang (dick-size)?
5-6 in.

9. What's the 8th message on your inbox, and who sent it?
“I'm back..If you have time, call me, I ned 2 talk 2 u. Miss u"

10. Kissed in public?
YES

11. How many one-night stands did you have?
One..two..three..four..five... i can't count anymore!

12. Craziest place you've done it with?
Bus

13. Have you slept with anyone famous?
YES

14. Do you have a Sex tape out there? In YouTube? Or naked pictures?
Absolutely none!

15. Have you been in a threesome?
Yes, more than threesome!

16. Tried illegal drugs. What drugs?
Yes.. S

17. How many (if you can still count them) have you slept with?
I can’t count anymore

18. Dude we all know you’re gay, so just admit it.
Paolo Ballesteros & Josh Santana

19. Have you ever had an indecent proposal?
Yes

20. Actor you think has a big wang
Mon Confiado

21. When was the last time you watched or read a porn material?
While im answering these questions

22 What will be your pornstar name and what will be the title of your first porn movie?
I would be kknown as Jeff S.... The title "Sagad"

23. Worst TV show?
Daisy Siyete (GMA), Bakekang (GMA), Lovely Day (GMA)

24. Spit or Swallow?
It depends

25. Longest time when you were "doing it" with someone?
4 hours

26. Shortest time?
5 minutes

27. Last time you had sex with someone?
1 hour ago

28. What's your favorite sex position?
Dog style

29. What was your strangest dream?
I dreamed of spending a night with Rico Yan (pbwh) a night after his death

30. If you HAVE TO sleep with a blogger contact, who would that be
Khalel

Fellatio

When it comes to HIV, giving a guy a blow-job was initially thought to be a safe activity. However, developing research over the years shows that it is not. It is a "medium" risk activity and the virus can enter tiny abrasions in the mouth, such as those from brushing your gums and teeth before sex. Play it safe - USE A CONDOM! That has the added benefit of not having to taste the semen.

Start out slowly,
touch the penis,
stroke,
gently grip it in your hand,
slowly moving up and down the shaft,
getting faster as he becomes aroused.
He may be producing lubrication (pre-cum) at this time.

Then kiss,
lick and start to suck on the head of the penis.
Flick your tongue on the head,
then up and down the shaft of the penis.
You can also kiss,
lick,
and suck his testicles while stroking his penis.

Now, gently take the head of his penis in your mouth
and allow lots of saliva to flow down the shaft of his penis for lubrication.
At the same time, you stimulate the shaft with your hand.
Go slowly at first,
then much faster,
still being very gentle because the penis is very sensitive.



We all have a gag reflex at the back of our throat,
so if you take his whole penis into your mouth,
you will hit your gag reflex
and feel like "barfing"

So, here's the secret,

only take the head into your mouth,
co-ordinate hand and head movement into a smooth rhythmic movement.
His breathing and body will tell you when he is about to ejaculate.
Ask him to indicate what pressure and speed he would like.
If you don't want him to ejaculate into your mouth,
he should warn you just before he comes.
Ejaculate won't hurt you,
but it is definitely an acquired taste
and many people prefer not to have it in their mouth.

Once he has ejaculated, stop all movement.
His penis is super sensitive right
then, so just let it rest in peace.
He will thank you.

Sex in a Relationship

In long-term gay relationships, each of us is aware that sex ebbs and flows. Chances are, if you have been together for years, you may not do it often anymore. Perhaps if you won’t do something about it, your relationship will wither completely.

I vaguely recall my five year relationship with Edwin when I was in my early twenties, but had wind up because we cannot sustained the passion and enjoyment anymore.

We had lots of sex during our first couple of years. It’s obvious that the new-relationship sex is obsessive, exhausting and trying to portray each other as great lovers. When we have sex, it’s enjoyable. But as time passed by, other aspects take over and sex is seen as “nakakasawa na”.

If sex winds down, the trouble comes if you lose track of each other as sexual beings and start to take each other for granted. The risk then is that a third party will view you and your partner as sexual and attractive and reawaken a desire, tempting one of you to stray.

It’s easy to draw a line under your sex life, but if you lost the habit of sex, you can lose the feeling of attractiveness, too; that’s why some partners involve a third person in their sexual intercourse. It sounds rather bleak, but we need to remind ourselves that intimacy comes in many guises and a lack of sex doesn’t always need fixing by way of looking for new partner of have fling with someone. Try to be experimental.

I lost mine, don’t lose yours….

How to give a great blow job...

The most important thing in love is to GIVE. One who gives love will receive love! If you have to force yourself into making love with your lover, then you need to find another lover, because you will loose that lover at sometime in the future. NO ONE WANTS TO BE WITH A LOVER THAT PRETENDS!



MAN’S CUM

Some cum taste bad and some taste wonderful. Cum is dependent on what your partner has had to eat… how much salt they have taken, etc. You can change the taste of CUM by the food you eat. A man’s cum contains a lot of protein which is not bad for you. IN fact, during the 12th to 19th century, men’s cum sold for a high price. Ladies used to apply Men’s CUM to their face and body which remove wrinkles. Think of it as a fine delicate drink…

Always be clean when making love, no one wants to be with someone who is not clean or healthy. Men are turned on by several things, one is smell. Wearing your favorite perfume never hurts…



ORAL SEX

Oral sex, aside from kissing, is the highest form of expression of love between partners. Hopefully, this information will help you break down any barriers which you might have that would prevent you from expressing your love.


First thing first…

1. Place him flat on his back on your bed, in a well lighted room.. Take his cock in your hand and LOOK at it. Look at his cock…take enough time to convince your man that some kind of treat is in store for him.

Few men can stay soft under these circumstances. When you first start to touch him, his cock will become hard. The cock must be hard if you are t be able to note the important parts that are sensitive to stimulation by your lips and tongue. Take a closer look at the shaft of the penis itself. There is a bulbous part of the organ near the outer end, slightly larger in diameter than the shaft, which is often called the head. The outside perimeter of the head is the corona.
Learn the areas of special sensitivity completely and be ready to apply your knowledge to his body with your tongue and with your lips when you bend your head over his cock.

2. While his erect penis points toward the ceiling, cup his balls in one hand and gently, using only your tongue. Moist your tongue and lick softly the head, then proceed to the corona, and carefully along the entire underside of his erect organ.

3. As you suck along the underbelly, you will learn those areas that give him the greatest pleasure when your tongue is touching them. (Unless he is made of stone, your man will provide you with vivid clues as to which areas are most pleasureable.)

4. For most men, the most sensitive area will be the point where the ring of the head and the foreskin are attached. By continued licking and tapping along this area with your tongue, you are going to being forth a wonderful climax for your man.

5. As he is getting ready to climax, you will note changes in his penis. These signs will be the same every time he climaxes so that you can prepare for his cum properly.

6. When you deep throat, try your tongue to lick the end of the shaft. It will surely add pleasure. Concentrate more on the corona, the most sensitive part of the penis.

7. The head of the cock may swell somewhat larger than it is during the normal course of his erection. He may thrust his hips forward as he wants to send his body hurtling out his cock with his cum.

8. Do not let your throat plays tricks on the head. The shaft of the penis does not have many nerve ending and does not, therefore, provide a man with any high degree of stimulations when caressed whether manually or with your tongue. Sucking up and down the shaft will get the guy on.

9. The testicles are extremely sensitive to PAIN and are not usually considered to erotic stimulation to any particular degree.

10. For most men, immediately prior to the cumming, there will appear at the tip of the cock a clear drop or two of his fluid. When you see this or feel this, you know that the moment of truth is at hand.

11. Launch your torpedoes, full cum ahead! Place his stiff cock inside your mouth but do not tighten your lips around the shaft. With your head begin a circular motion, the cock will slide to different places in your mouth as you continue. Watch your teeth on this one. A kneeling position will suffice, but it is also effective when your man is on his back and your head is directly over his cock. The circle should be executed in both clockwise and counter-clockwise motion in a slow purposeful manner.

12. Continue in rhythmic motion and when you feel that his penis becomes harder, try to increase the speed of your sucking but make sure to excrete more liquid to make it smoother and not to tighten your lips.

13. When you feel that the penis reach its maximum hardest point, you will notice that the penis becomes bigger and swollen. It will remain harder until you noticed from the shaft that something has to come out. You can feel the pulsation of the penis when the load started to run from the duct. If you prefer to cum inside your mouth, continue the up and down motion of your mouth in slow rhythm, with the tip of your tongue licking the shaft. Some men feel uncomfortable being suck-up after cumming. Best way is to continue licking the head, corona, shaft with the sperm on it. This arouses him more.